That the communication of thy faith may become effectual by the acknowledging of every good thing which is in you in Christ Jesus.
Philemon 1:6 (KJV)
Everything changes with right believing,
The outward changes that you desire will start with right believing.
All things are possible to the one that believes that all things are possible to him or her.
Pay attention to what you say, because it reflects what you really believe.
Pay attention to your actions because it reflects what you really believe.
Pay attention to the media you subscribe to and the people you hang out with because it reflects what you really believe.
One thing about our beliefs is that it is embedded in our subconscious mind, and that is the part of our mind that carries the programming of our life.
Pay attention to what you believe.
You may have to unlearn and relearn. You may have to uninstall and reinstall.
You may have to reprogram your subconscious mind.
That is why the Scriptures says in Romans 12:2 Be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind.